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My First Blog Post

Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken.

— Oscar Wilde.

Being yourself…..? Is it so simple as it sounds?

Maybe not in any girl’s life… In all our life we experienced Love, Lie, Betrayal, Hurt and Emotional fluctuations…. This blog is about how i face my own life and how i am struggling with all the wounds and cuts yet survive…. Just a experience of our unsaid life….

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Inspire…

We all have a mindset… when comes to inspiration…
Here I say we all say I am inspired by this person I am inspired by that person he is my role model and she is my role model… How sweet… One person can change many people’s life… It’s awesome right…

But I am not here to speak about my role model or anyone… I am going to tell you something which may help you… Let us start… Just think about this moment of your life are you happy about your life? Or sad? Depressed? Work Stressed? Personal Issues? If you are happy you feel lucky but if you have issues you feel like… No, my life is done always problems why it always happens only to me right?

Let us think about our life before 5 years now…. maybe 2 years or even 1 year… Think slowly and rewind all the best and worst things of your life for a few seconds… You survived everything you handled everything by yourself or with the help of others which doesn’t matter but you got it… So only you are present in this moment right now reading this…

You are your own role model and inspiration of your life… Everyone has problems but we always find a way to solve it and run towards happiness no matter what… Just for a few seconds at least inspire, admire yourself for all your efforts, hard works, smart work, and everything accomplished by you… Instead of comparing with other people and think I never accomplish anything in my life… Don’t compare yourself with anyone you are unique in every way than others

You are just awesome like your role model or the person who inspires you… Be positive and be happy… Show love and kindness to all…

Have a Great Day Ahead…

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Crowded…

It is too much of a crowd we couldn’t breathe properly…
It is not people crowd, it is not traffic… Our mind is crowded with thoughts… We couldn’t get rid of…
Not only the physical crowd suffocates you, mental crowd, as well…
What we will do to relieve us from a crowded place where we are not comfortable?
We will make our way out of those crowd it included pushing and pulling of some people… Do we hesitate and suffer no… We will find our way out no matter what the same… Trying to push out of the feelings which makes us uncomfortable and suffocates and pulling the thoughts which make us go on our way helps to clear the mind…
We do overthink some times… that is when we feel like we are not able to breathe because of tightly packed space… after coming out of a crowd we feel easy to breathe and relieved and when we think back again why we were in that crowd in the first place our answer “Don’t Know” It doesn’t worth it… The time we waste in overthinking is the precious time of our life to have fun and laugh…
We always find our way out… In a half-a-way, once we understand we are stuck we try to get out as same problems in our life once we are half-a- way with any problem we like to get out… Instead of finding a hard way out… Let’s get back to the way we came in… The source of the problem that will help…

Please don’t crowd your mind and suffocate yourself… Live your life with a free mind… Show love and kindness to all…

Have a Great Day Ahead…

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Slow and Steady Wins the Race…

Every day will be a boon or ban…

But let’s think about the positive side of the day…

One day I feel like everything is falling apart I feel like my manager is plotting against me and customers are going crazy and making unreasonable arguments with me…
I feel like quitting the job I am into too much pressure… I wanted to sit quite somewhere in the corner of the room and some time for me…
I was very upset and happened to encounter some personal issues as well… The most trusted person broke my trust turning out everything was a big fat lie… I lost it… went to bed lashed out on that person switched off mobile and had a troubled sleep…

Next-Day… Felt tired to wake up but need to go to work… Exhausted thinking about last night woke up laying still… Time is clicking I am already late to work… Thinking for some time just closed my eyes concentrating on my breath… Deep breaths… Inhale… Exhale… Few minutes opened my eyes… Everything happened for a reason I agreed to mind…

At work everything worked out well and my manager was actually trying to help me out with the problematic customer… The personal issue it lays in the past which I have overreacted… Some times we feel like our life is falling apart and jumps into the conclusion in a hurry… But few seconds of clearing the mind seriously helps everything… Be cool that’s all we need…

Slow and steady wins the race. … The old one only… But it has a deeper meaning than we realize…

Have a Great Day…

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GOD…

What’s your belief?

Hinduism, Christianity, Islam, or any other religion? It is a very sensitive topic to many… Even some times to me personally. I am a believer…

Last weekend when I went shopping with my friend we were having lunch at one hotpot shop at the mall… Out of topic to speak, we were having a long silence. Suddenly I asked how humans came into the world… There you go… It all started like that only…

We started speaking about how a man would learn cooking for the first time, How lonely he would have been in those times… Then we started talking about the theory of how man evolved from monkey… Like I never gave much thought about these things ever… But after discussing she told me something about some random museum and all…

Then we were speaking about the universe how things are built… How each and every invention is made almost like everything… Then to the sensitive topic GOD… We exchanged many thoughts and disagreed with many too… ( I don’t want to mention many here)… Then we concluded saying maybe God is not real… People made it because it is never proven scientifically like that… We also talked about we may be aliens on one planet. Real people or some other things original species may like in the other like that.

After having lunch… When we were about to move I said maybe GOD is not scientifically proven but it is based on belief right. She agreed she said if we don’t believe or hold on to anything then humans will not be human anymore… We will be killing each other every passing second… I laughed and send to me GOD is LOVE nothing else… The belief of love is god to me and I am a believer… She said yeah I agree with you…

So we concluded GOD is there on our belief… Even though not physically… Things beyond our power and imaginations some superior power holds everything… Let’s put our belief in that and stay kind and lovable to others we decided and started our shopping…

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Some Unfollowed Facts of Life…

  1. Don’t be too available for someone in your life… Probably you will lose your own space.
  2. Learn to say NO sometimes even though it is hard it feels good eventually.
  3. If someone says you are everything in their life… Analyze it don’t believe blindly.
  4. Help others but don’t overthrow, sometimes you’ll never get back.
  5. If someone treats you as their second priority just walk out… They keep you only for emotional support.
  6. Give importance to yourself as you give to your loved one. You deserve it too…
  7. Heartbreak? Hurt? Don’t go for revenge or I am going to make them regret… They don’t care… start living your life instead.
  8. If your crush or love interest shows more importance to a particular person? Yes, it’s your time to move on
  9. Having a bad day feeling too low? Call your parents they will make you smile… But we always prefer someone else right?
  10. Most trusted people double-crossing you? Shut them out of your life… Don’t overthink they don’t worth it.
  11. If your loved one constantly putting yourself between self-respect and love… Choose self-respect sometimes you worth more than you think.
  12. You are more than awesome… Don’t let people ruin it… Believe in you…

Have a Great Day…

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Daily Routine…

  1. Make your bed every morning it’s not taking too much time… I just started before few months only but it feels good and active… The most important room looks clean…<a href="http://<head&gt;https://pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/js/adsbygoogle.jshttp://<head><script data-ad-client=”ca-pub-9120735842403014″ async src=”https://pagead2.googlesyndication.com/pagead/js/adsbygoogle.js”></script></head&gt;
  2. Try doing Meditation for a few minutes even though in beginning we can’t get hold of our wandering thoughts but eventually it gets better day by day it’s like fueling our mind to think fresh… May be exercise also… Just give a try for one week if possible…
  3. Eat something you like that makes your day with positiveness and refreshed.
  4. Be sportive, smile even though things irritate you instead of being upset smile. I felt that change… It will be helpful
  5. Don’t panic if something goes wrong none of the problems is the end of your life… Everything will have a solution… Nothing values your life so try to be focused on the solution.
  6. Find the source of the problem that will help you to get rid of it as soon as possible.
  7. Try to be kind to greet your office security or housemaids or any strangers if possible… One day you greet them they’ll smile at you forever… You’ll realize it’s value when you were having a bad day.
  8. Give some time for fun each day watch something you like maybe some comedy or prank show treat your self with a laugh… You needed it.
  9. Try to be potential, complete at least one scheduled work you’ll make it a habit in the future.
  10. Finally to have a good day try to sleep on time… Mobile plays a big role in all our life now… It is not easy to give up on our mobile to sleep… But you needed it and you deserve to have a good day… A little sacrifice goes to sleep on time you’ll thank yourself for the change.

Everything is in my thoughts and routine… But maybe it will differ for many…

Have a Good day.